Relationship Talk with Gaius Great

 Putting others above yourself is one of the things we should try doing in our day to day activities. Relationship will only work when the both parties are ready and willing to put the needs of their partner above their own needs. Being in a relationship is a two way thing not one sided. It is frustrating being in a relationship when the love and commitment is one sided. Is only matter of time that relationship will break. So I strongly believe that for a relationship to work perfectly we should make effort to that effect and in so doing we will have a happy relationship.

 I discussed in my last blog about things to consider before going into a Relationship and one of those things is "do I really love myself" Is easier to love yourself than to love others, there are things you do in order to show you love yourself. I would like us to look at those things we do to ourselves that shows we love ourselves. 1. First thing we do in the morning when we wake up from sleep, we didn't just jump out of the bed and start dressing up for work. We first go to the bathroom to bath, then dress with a clean clothes, make use of body spray so we scent nice out there. 2. We know we should eat our meals daily and we should not look malnurished. 3. We also know that we need to change our worn-out clothes, underwear, shoes and old toothbrush. This things listed above are part of the things we do to care and show love to ourselves. In so doing we look more healthier as the day pass by, so it takes efforts from us to make sure we are healthy.  The same attention ...

 In life before we start a business, pick a career or buy a car we consider some factors, but when it comes to a RELATIONSHIP we don't take our time to consider the following things. 1. Do I really love myself. 2. Can I put the needs of others above my own needs. 3. Are we compatible or not. 4. Can I overlooked his/her excesses and still want to continue. 5. Why do I want to start a relationship? 6. Is it a long term or short term relationship. I will like you all to consider these things before we go into any relationship, because is the reason why we have so many broken relationships and failed marriages in our society today.